[Tim]

3 things want most:

-Care for child

-influence & support that reinforces my role as parent

-expertise that trains child in ways I might not know and helps me to grow in how to do the same

3 fears:

-Not seek what is best for my child

-Make assumptions about my child without full picture or willingness to hear my input

-Seek to influence child away from me or my role in their life.