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  • Levana Benabe

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    February 25, 2026 at 4:24 am

    I try and keep my rules simple yet broad enough that they can be applied to many situations. For example one of my rules is no touching but rather than say this in the negative my rule is. “Keep your body to yourself” and we have a song we sing…🎵 Keep your body to yourself, keep your body to yourself put your hands together (clap hands together) and keep your body to yourself 🎵 This rule can be applied in so many ways.If someone hits pushes or kick someone else we can remind them to keep their body to themselves.

    • Trainer

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      February 27, 2026 at 3:02 am

      Great approach, Levana! Using positive language and songs makes the rule memorable and encourages understanding among the children. Keep it up!

  • mudita

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    February 25, 2026 at 9:52 pm

    i can use some positive sentences like catch a magic bubble and than when i got their attention then i can talk to them about the rules. Rules like nobody is allowed to throw things in the class rather they can go to teacher and talk to them

    • Trainer

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      February 27, 2026 at 3:04 am

      Great approach, Mudita! Using positive imagery and engaging language really helps capture their attention and reinforce rules effectively.

  • Takara Dillon

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    February 26, 2026 at 6:15 pm

    A Playful Trick That Always WorksAfter reading a story like No, David! or Llama Llama Mad at Mama, invite children to help “fix” the character’s choices:• “What rule did David forget?”• “Which rule would help Llama Llama?”• “Can you show me the kind way to do it?”Children LOVE correcting characters, and it helps them internalize the rules without feeling called out.

  • Valentino

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    February 27, 2026 at 4:25 am

    I always make sure to be specific but simple with how i word the rules , like some kids play rougher then others so we talk about having kind hands or respectful hands and describe what that means to make sure they understand it.

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      March 9, 2026 at 2:00 am

      Great approach, Valentino! Using specific, relatable terms like “kind hands” helps children grasp concepts effectively. Keep it up!

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      March 10, 2026 at 2:00 am

      Great approach, Valentino! Using specific, relatable terms like “kind hands” helps children grasp concepts effectively. Keep it up!

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      March 11, 2026 at 2:01 am

      Great approach, Valentino! Using specific, relatable terms like “kind hands” helps children grasp concepts effectively. Keep it up!

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      May 4, 2026 at 2:01 pm

      Great approach, Valentino! Using specific, relatable terms like “kind hands” helps children grasp concepts effectively. Keep it up!

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      May 5, 2026 at 2:00 am

      Great approach, Valentino! Using specific, relatable terms like “kind hands” helps children grasp concepts effectively. Keep it up!

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      May 20, 2026 at 2:00 am

      Great approach, Valentino! Using specific, relatable terms like “kind hands” helps children grasp concepts effectively. Keep it up!

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      May 21, 2026 at 2:00 am

      Great approach, Valentino! Using specific, relatable terms like “kind hands” helps children grasp concepts effectively. Keep it up!

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      May 22, 2026 at 2:00 am

      Great approach, Valentino! Using specific, relatable terms like “kind hands” helps children grasp concepts effectively. Keep it up!

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      May 25, 2026 at 2:00 am

      Great approach, Valentino! Using specific, relatable terms like “kind hands” helps children grasp concepts effectively. Keep it up!

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      May 26, 2026 at 2:00 am

      Great approach, Valentino! Using specific, relatable terms like “kind hands” helps children grasp concepts effectively. Keep it up!

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      May 27, 2026 at 2:00 am

      Great approach, Valentino! Using specific, relatable terms like “kind hands” helps children grasp concepts effectively. Keep it up!

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      May 28, 2026 at 2:00 am

      Great approach, Valentino! Using specific, relatable terms like “kind hands” helps children grasp concepts effectively. Keep it up!

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      May 29, 2026 at 2:00 am

      Great approach, Valentino! Using specific, relatable terms like “kind hands” helps children grasp concepts effectively. Keep it up!

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      June 2, 2026 at 2:00 am

      Great approach, Valentino! Using specific, relatable terms like “kind hands” helps children grasp concepts effectively. Keep it up!

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      June 3, 2026 at 2:00 am

      Great approach, Valentino! Using specific, relatable terms like “kind hands” helps children grasp concepts effectively. Keep it up!

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      June 4, 2026 at 2:01 am

      Great approach, Valentino! Using specific, relatable terms like “kind hands” helps children grasp concepts effectively. Keep it up!

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      June 5, 2026 at 2:00 am

      Great approach, Valentino! Using specific, relatable terms like “kind hands” helps children grasp concepts effectively. Keep it up!

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      June 8, 2026 at 2:00 am

      Great approach, Valentino! Using specific, relatable terms like “kind hands” helps children grasp concepts effectively. Keep it up!

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      June 9, 2026 at 2:00 am

      Great approach, Valentino! Using specific, relatable terms like “kind hands” helps children grasp concepts effectively. Keep it up!

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      June 12, 2026 at 2:00 am

      Great approach, Valentino! Using specific, relatable terms like “kind hands” helps children grasp concepts effectively. Keep it up!

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      June 15, 2026 at 2:00 am

      Great approach, Valentino! Using specific, relatable terms like “kind hands” helps children grasp concepts effectively. Keep it up!

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      June 16, 2026 at 2:00 am

      Great approach, Valentino! Using specific, relatable terms like “kind hands” helps children grasp concepts effectively. Keep it up!

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      June 17, 2026 at 2:00 am

      Great approach, Valentino! Using specific, relatable terms like “kind hands” helps children grasp concepts effectively. Keep it up!

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      June 18, 2026 at 2:01 am

      Great approach, Valentino! Using specific, relatable terms like “kind hands” helps children grasp concepts effectively. Keep it up!

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      June 19, 2026 at 2:00 am

      Great approach, Valentino! Using specific, relatable terms like “kind hands” helps children grasp concepts effectively. Keep it up!

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      June 22, 2026 at 2:00 am

      Great approach, Valentino! Using specific, relatable terms like “kind hands” helps children grasp concepts effectively. Keep it up!

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      June 23, 2026 at 2:00 am

      Great approach, Valentino! Using specific, relatable terms like “kind hands” helps children grasp concepts effectively. Keep it up!

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      June 24, 2026 at 2:00 am

      Great approach, Valentino! Using specific, relatable terms like “kind hands” helps children grasp concepts effectively. Keep it up!

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      June 25, 2026 at 2:00 am

      Great approach, Valentino! Using specific, relatable terms like “kind hands” helps children grasp concepts effectively. Keep it up!

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      June 26, 2026 at 2:00 am

      Great approach, Valentino! Using specific, relatable terms like “kind hands” helps children grasp concepts effectively. Keep it up!

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      July 1, 2026 at 2:00 am

      Great approach, Valentino! Using specific, relatable terms like “kind hands” helps children grasp concepts effectively. Keep it up!

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      July 2, 2026 at 2:01 am

      Great approach, Valentino! Using specific, relatable terms like “kind hands” helps children grasp concepts effectively. Keep it up!

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      July 3, 2026 at 2:00 am

      Great approach, Valentino! Using specific, relatable terms like “kind hands” helps children grasp concepts effectively. Keep it up!

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      July 6, 2026 at 2:00 am

      Great approach, Valentino! Using specific, relatable terms like “kind hands” helps children grasp concepts effectively. Keep it up!

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      July 7, 2026 at 2:00 am

      Great approach, Valentino! Using specific, relatable terms like “kind hands” helps children grasp concepts effectively. Keep it up!

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      July 8, 2026 at 2:00 am

      Great approach, Valentino! Using specific, relatable terms like “kind hands” helps children grasp concepts effectively. Keep it up!

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      July 10, 2026 at 2:00 am

      Great approach, Valentino! Using specific, relatable terms like “kind hands” helps children grasp concepts effectively. Keep it up!

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      July 15, 2026 at 2:00 am

      Great approach, Valentino! Using specific, relatable terms like “kind hands” helps children grasp concepts effectively. Keep it up!

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      July 16, 2026 at 2:00 am

      Great approach, Valentino! Using specific, relatable terms like “kind hands” helps children grasp concepts effectively. Keep it up!

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      July 17, 2026 at 2:00 am

      Great approach, Valentino! Using specific, relatable terms like “kind hands” helps children grasp concepts effectively. Keep it up!

  • Lonnie

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    March 24, 2026 at 3:15 am

    Discussing and role playing what is a good behavior vs a bad behavior in class.

  • barbara sloan

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    April 26, 2026 at 5:42 am

    Focus on good behavior with rules like not going ahead of other kids in line.

  • aliaa Gharib

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    April 28, 2026 at 9:40 pm

    I found that keeping rules short, positive and easy to remember works best for early learners. Instead of saying, don’t run, I try to phrase it like walking feet inside. Visual reminders with pictures or colors also help children understand expectations. More clearly, I also think consistency and gentle reminders are really important. Especially when handling challenging behaviors, making children feel involved by reviewing rules together can make them more engaged in cooperative.

  • Camille

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    May 14, 2026 at 1:12 am

    Write a list on the wall and give kids the chance to add to it. Make sure they are suggesting items with positive language (do this) not negative language (don’t do that).

  • Kailese

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    May 30, 2026 at 7:46 pm

    phase them in a silly manner, that way they are easy to remember.

  • Nina

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    June 11, 2026 at 1:27 am

    We keep rule lists simple by using short statements like “being respectful” and “Use kind words” I make the rules engaging by having the kids read each one aloud when we go over them as a big group.

  • dariana

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    June 15, 2026 at 8:30 am

    When we line the kids up to wash their hands they are usually very full of energy and chatty so to reel them in we simply ask the group of children what our motto is, to which they respond “quick and quiet” this not only gets all the students attention but it also lists the rules and expectations that is simple enough for everyone to understand.

  • Rosalba Vizcarra

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    June 18, 2026 at 12:02 am

    Making a rule list can be fun!Get a popular color paper for childrenBig dark markerVisual that go along with the rules and display it where kids can see it at eye levelGet students’ input when writing the rules

  • yahira

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    July 6, 2026 at 1:43 pm

    what I do to make it more engaging but still get across the rules is showing fun interesting pictures of what to do and explain to the children why we do the things that we do

  • Laila

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    July 15, 2026 at 3:14 am

    I make it simple by making it positive and engaging by creating fun visuals and drawings. My best trick is to sing while making these visuals.

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