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  • brenda

    Guest
    December 31, 2023 at 11:52 pm

    I have not faced any biting situations yet but i have had hit, kicking, scratching, pushing. which can all also be very severe. I always try to stay calm when addressing both children in the situation, giving the child space and time to think about what they’ve done so we can talk about it after i have given lots of love to my hurt friend.

  • Latoya

    Guest
    January 4, 2024 at 1:28 am

    I have had to directly deal with biting on various occasions while working in a child care setting. I usually would deal with it by attempting to understand why a child is biting and what kind of solutions could be implemented in order to control the instance and produce a much more positive outcome. Biting incidents can be reduced by organizing the classroom environment to suit each child’s interaction and play throughout the course of the day. I have found it to be very helpful to provide options equally and distribute them accordingly so that there would be minimal to no aggression among the children. Therefore, all of the children have similar choices during learning and play activities at all times.

  • Leyla

    Guest
    January 4, 2024 at 2:59 am

    To reduce biting incidents, I would check for teething and give a child something to cool his/her gums. I would also set up rules and expectations, reminding them that biting hurts. I would encourage children to use their words, provide them with more attention and activities to develop their fine motor and gross motor skills. Additionally, I would acknowledge positive interactions with peers and encourage empathy.

    • Trainer

      Administrator
      January 6, 2024 at 3:21 am

      Great response, Leyla! Addressing teething, setting expectations, and encouraging positive interactions are all effective ways to reduce biting incidents. Providing activities to develop motor skills is a proactive approach too. Well done!

  • Anna

    Guest
    January 4, 2024 at 3:17 am

    I have not experienced a biting child in my care. I am learning and yes some of what was mentioned I have seen it with other teachers. Also I learned a lot from the techniques.

  • Kathryn

    Guest
    January 16, 2024 at 1:56 am

    I have dealt with biting in my toddler classes. In all instances, I try to curb the behavior by making sure all toys have multiple options so the kids have more to choose from. I also like to spread out activities and remove the temptation by providing teethers frequently.

  • Victoria

    Guest
    January 18, 2024 at 12:09 am

    I have always had items on hand for biting. Also helping the children communicate verbally and non verbally in healthy ways is my first go to. Working with each child is different but there is always something that helps once the cause has been identified.

  • Madeline

    Guest
    January 19, 2024 at 3:21 am

    I haven’t dealt with biting perse however I have dealt with pushing and shoving and rough play/interrupting. I have found that if I give the students space to recollect themselves and calm themselves they are better for it! I chat with them and see how they are feeling and I repeat that feeling back to them. I also ask them what ways they think they could better deal with how they feel. Do they think that they could do jumping jacks to get some energy out. Why are they wanting someone to give them attention? In what ways could they ask for more support and attention for peers and their teachers.

  • Cheryl Person

    Guest
    January 23, 2024 at 3:11 am

    Normally when I had a child that was biting, I would have the child go to the cozy cube until she calmed down. I would approach the child once she calmed down and asked her how she is feeling today, is there anything she wanted to talk to me about. I would address what was bothering her, hug her and let her know that she should come to me and tell me when she is angry, sad, or confuse and not to bite anyone

  • corrie haynes

    Guest
    January 25, 2024 at 12:07 am

    i have handled it by seprating the kids and by figuring out if there trying to communicate something or if there tired and hungry or teething just try figuiring out the problem that caused the biting to beging with

    • Trainer

      Administrator
      January 26, 2024 at 3:21 am

      Corrie, your approach of understanding the root cause of biting and addressing the underlying issue is commendable. Creating a supportive environment and being attentive to children’s needs can help prevent biting incidents.

  • Ashley

    Guest
    February 5, 2024 at 3:45 pm

    I have not had to deal with biting in my care. I have heard of many people that have had it in their care. It is always good to know how to deal with it for when it does happen in my care and to give tips to fellow providers that struggle with it in their care.

    • Trainer

      Administrator
      February 7, 2024 at 3:21 am

      “Thank you for sharing, Ashley. It’s essential to be prepared for challenging behaviors like biting and support fellow providers. Creating a positive environment with clear communication and teaching appropriate behavior can help prevent biting incidents.”

  • karah dykes-rankin

    Guest
    February 22, 2024 at 7:11 am

    I think it is important to watch for cues when biting mostly occurs. The best way to deal with biting is to acknowledge the problem by logging down when it happens and the events surrounding the situation. Then watch for a pattern like time of day, who is primarily biting, and are students retaliating by biting back. Make a point to not reward biting behavior by focusing not on the biter but the student who got bitten. When they realize that they are not getting the primary attention when it happens hopefully it will subside. if necessary talk to parents on what happens at home and what could be triggering it. You have to put the child in a position where they will eventually understand that biting hurts your classmates so it is not a good choice to be making. Reduce stimulation in the classroom to keep the students calm. Maybe use calming music to help them relax and spend one on one attention before the behavior occurs. This might be all they need to help curb the need to bite. Parents might be able to help with insight on maybe why the child is biting whether it could be a sharing issue, teething, or even hunger. Make sure those are addressed first before jumping to any conclusions.

    • Trainer

      Administrator
      February 27, 2024 at 3:21 am

      Great insight, Karah! Your approach to observing patterns, redirecting attention, and involving parents is comprehensive and effective. Creating a calm environment and addressing underlying issues are key strategies in reducing biting incidents.

  • Natasha King

    Guest
    February 26, 2024 at 8:11 pm

    Biting happens!! We look at the situation and try to determine if it is out of frustration lack of communication or being aggressive. If the child biting has a habit of biting we will give them a biting necklace and ready social stories regarding how biting hurts.

  • Mary

    Guest
    February 26, 2024 at 9:47 pm

    I did have a child that would bite other children and at first I thought it was because the child had very few words. Once the child got more words I thought the biting would stop. When it did not stop I would talk to both students to find out what was going on. It got to a point that I would have to write down every time the child would bit and see if there was a pattern. I would be in communication with the child’s parents and they would make sure their child had snacks to eat because they thought that their child could be hungry and could not say that they are hungry.

    • Trainer

      Administrator
      February 29, 2024 at 3:21 am

      Mary, it’s important to address the root cause of biting behavior. Communication with parents and tracking patterns can help identify triggers and find solutions.

  • glaiza

    Member
    March 1, 2024 at 10:48 pm

    We haven’t had any instances of needing to deal with kids biting in our preschool. But we would deal with the situation similarly to how you would deal with children with aggression.

    -Immediate Intervention and diffuse the situation

    -Address the victim

    -Address the aggressor

    -Teach alternatives

    -Monitor and observe and follow up

    • Trainer

      Administrator
      March 5, 2024 at 3:21 am

      Great response, Glaiza! Your approach to handling biting incidents aligns with best practices for addressing aggression in children. Consistent monitoring and teaching alternatives are key for creating a positive environment.

  • Diane

    Guest
    March 10, 2024 at 5:27 pm

    I have not had to deal with a child that bites, however i have had a lot of children teething…I provide numerous toys for chewing on, cold teethers and cold snacks.

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