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Emotional regulation in children
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Emily Collins
MemberJune 25, 2025 at 9:53 pmListening to them and helping them identify their feelings on a feeling chart. Giving them redirection or helping to breathe deeply by blowing out the candles, smelling flowers or resting a stuffed animal on their stomach
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Great suggestions, Emily! Using a feelings chart and deep breathing techniques are effective ways to support emotional awareness and regulation.
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Isabella
MemberJune 25, 2025 at 10:16 pmBy letting them speak to you about their emotions and the childcare professional listening calmly without interrupting the student can resolve the issue.
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Great point, Isabella! Active listening fosters trust and helps children articulate their feelings effectively.
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Maria
MemberJune 25, 2025 at 10:20 pmSome ways that can help children identify their feelings is by using a feelings chart, through body scans, using feeling pebbles, through movement, etc.
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Great suggestions, Maria! Utilizing diverse tools like feelings charts and movement can truly enhance emotional awareness in children.
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maria
MemberJune 30, 2025 at 12:54 amby labeling feelings (mad, sad, excited) explaining to kids what each emotion is and role playing when child is calm, practice self-calming techniques like deep breathing discuss emotions in book and movies
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Great insights, Maria! Labeling emotions and role-playing are effective strategies for helping children understand and manage their feelings.
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Some of the best ways to help children recognize their emotions and control their responses are to stay calm yourself, role-play emotional situations, teach calming techniques like smelling a flower and gently blowing out a candle, label emotions aloud, encourage expression through words or art, and provide consistent routines and clear expectations.
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Reagan
MemberJuly 2, 2025 at 9:56 pmSome of the best ways to help children recognize their emotions and control their responses include naming emotions as they happen to build emotional vocabulary and self-awareness. Reading books about feelings, using emotion cards, and engaging in role-play can also help children identify different emotions and appropriate ways to express them. Teaching calming strategies like deep breathing, counting, or using a quiet space gives them tools to manage strong feelings. Most importantly, modeling healthy emotional regulation yourself helps children learn by example.
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Great insights, Reagan! Your emphasis on modeling emotional regulation and practical strategies is key for fostering children’s emotional intelligence.
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Ayan Hassen
MemberJuly 3, 2025 at 9:00 pm<strong data-start=”89″ data-end=”113″>Trainer Interaction:One of the most effective ways to help children recognize their emotions is by consistently <strong data-start=”207″ data-end=”228″>labeling emotions using visual aids like <strong data-start=”252″ data-end=”270″>feeling charts and through <strong data-start=”283″ data-end=”313″>body language observations (e.g., “I see your fists are clenched—are you feeling angry?”).To help them control responses, <strong data-start=”412″ data-end=”443″>daily self-calming practice is key. Techniques like <strong data-start=”468″ data-end=”486″>deep breathing, <strong data-start=”488″ data-end=”524″>role-playing emotional scenarios, and creating a <strong data-start=”541″ data-end=”560″>calm-down space allow children to build emotional awareness and regulation skills in a safe, supportive environment. Practicing these strategies when the child is calm helps them apply the skills during stressful moments.
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I’ve noticed with the children that I have worked with, taking a moment away form the area that was overstimulating them is a great first step, then taking some deep breaths, and trying their best communicate why they are feeling such big emotions. I stay calm throughout it all and make sure they know that their emotions are okay.
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Shaila Saez
MemberJuly 7, 2025 at 5:22 amHelp children name their feelings by using simple words.
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Great insight, Shaila! Naming feelings is a crucial step in emotional awareness and self-regulation for children.
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A super good way to recognize and control their emotions is to get them familiar with different emotions. Show them what angry looks like and what frustration, sadness, disappointment looks like. Then model to the child how you as an adult regulates this emotion. For example, showing a child how to take deep breaths when angry.
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Great insights, Emily! Modeling emotional regulation and familiarizing children with emotions is key to their understanding and control.
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Chaelynn
MemberJuly 8, 2025 at 11:00 pmReading children’s books about feelings & emotions and practicing breathing exercises will help regulate their emotions.
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Great suggestions, Chaelynn! Incorporating stories and breathing exercises can effectively teach children emotional awareness and regulation.
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As a Montessori Early Childhood guide, I help children recognize their emotions by first modeling calm, respectful language about feelings—naming emotions as they arise (e.g., “It looks like you’re feeling frustrated because the tower fell”). I also provide practical tools like a peace corner with calming materials, breathing exercises, and stories about emotions to support self-regulation. Grace and Courtesy lessons give children language and strategies for expressing needs appropriately, while consistent routines and a prepared environment help them feel secure and in control. Over time, these practices empower children to pause, reflect, and choose more constructive responses.
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Great insights, Marcia! Modeling emotions and providing tools like a peace corner fosters emotional intelligence and self-regulation effectively.
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Marissa C
MemberJuly 9, 2025 at 9:50 pmIt is important to communicate to children that it is okay to feel how they are feeling; all emotions are valid, and it helps them to understand why they may feel the way that they do. By allowing them to recognize their emotions, it becomes easier to brainstorm solutions together on how to calm themselves down. I especially like the suggestion of placing a stuffed toy on their belly and having them breathe in and out to make it rise. Breathing is a natural way of calming down, and incorporating a stuffed animal they like makes it even easier to calm them.
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Great insights, Marissa! Validating emotions and using breathing techniques with a stuffed toy is a wonderful approach for emotional regulation.
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Teach the children feeling words and model emotions for them. You can create an “Emotion” wheel or chart with visuals. Teach them coping strategies such as coloring/drawing, fidget items, counting to 10 with a deep breath after each number. Teach them “Name it to Tame it” and encourage them to say how they feel. You can also use storybooks and/or similar stories that they might feel connected to.
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Hannah
MemberJuly 11, 2025 at 5:03 amSome of the best ways to help children recognize their emotions and control their responses is through talking through how they are feeling. Saying it seems like you are frustrated, what caused you to be frustrated or angry. Let’s maybe take some deep breaths and sit for a little bit, I find that usually helps me to think and see how I feel. Whenever I’m frustrated or grouchy, I like to take a moment to breathe in and out a few times, then think about how I can be kind to others around me and express how I feel or how I have felt hurt by them.
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Great insights, Hannah! Encouraging deep breathing and open dialogue fosters emotional awareness and self-regulation in children.
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