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Expectations from your child's provider
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Expectations from your child's provider
Trainer replied 2 months, 4 weeks ago 294 Members · 1,039 Reply
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As a parent the three things I would want most from a childcare provider would be respect, professionalism, and safety. The three fears I would have when leaving my child in someone’s care would be neglect, unsafe by not being alert and aware, and poor, mean behavior.
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If I were a parent of a young child, three things that I would want most are for the provider to teach/educate my child, love and care for my child through an appropriate relationship, and observe my child enough that they do not feel neglected.Three things that I would fear are that the provider treats my child differently from others, that the provider does not communicate enough with me, or that the provider doesn’t care enough to help with my child’s development.
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Great insights, Itzelll! Your emphasis on education, care, and communication highlights key expectations that every parent shares.
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laura lucia scott
MemberSeptember 25, 2025 at 4:55 am<pre data-placeholder=”Traducción” role=”text” tabindex=”-1″ aria-label=”Texto traducido: The three things I would like as a parent are for the school to foster respect, for it to be safe, and for my daughter to learn. My fear as a parent would be leaving my daughter in an unsafe place, where the early childhood education staff wouldn’t care about her, knowing that her development would be affected and that it would be a hostile environment.” data-ved=”2ahUKEwjb39jwjvOPAxXQHzQIHUF3CKMQ3ewLegQIChAV”>The three things I would like as a parent are for the school to foster respect, for it to be safe, and for my daughter to learn. My fear as a parent would be leaving my daughter in an unsafe place, where the early childhood education staff wouldn’t care about her, knowing that her development would be affected and that it would be a hostile environment.
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Laura, your concerns about safety, respect, and learning are vital. A nurturing environment is essential for every child’s development.
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Caitlyn Bedingfield
MemberSeptember 25, 2025 at 8:22 pmIf I were the parent of a young child, 3 things I would want their care provider to do is#1 Love and accept my child for who they authentically are.#2 Support and nurture my child when they are in need.#3 Protect my child from danger or harm.3 things I would not want their care provider to do is#1 Choose other children to be their “favorite” and not treat my child with the same love, care, and attention.#2 Emotionally or physically hurt my child by yelling at them, teasing, being mean, hitting, grabbing, sexually abusing them, etc.#3 Let my child do dangerous things on the playground or within the classroom which could seriously injure them without telling them to stop.
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Three things I would want most from my child’s provider: Safety: Knowing my child is in a secure and well-supervised environment. Nurturing care: Providers who are kind, attentive, and responsive to my child’s needs. Support for learning and growth: Activities and interactions that help my child develop socially, emotionally, and intellectually. Three fears I might have when leaving my child: Accidents or injuries happening while I’m away. My child feeling upset or anxious and not having comfort. My child not receiving enough attention or stimulation to grow and learn.
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Great insights, Marcy! Your emphasis on safety, nurturing care, and support for learning is crucial for any child’s development.
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3 important things: Communication and developmental support, trust and safety, emotional connection.3 Fear: hide important information, mistreated, emotional hurt.
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Anisa
MemberSeptember 30, 2025 at 5:39 pm1. Honesty, reliability, empathy2. Abusive, not reliable, careless
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Anisa, your focus on honesty and empathy is crucial for a positive provider relationship. Great insights!
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Riley Smith
MemberOctober 1, 2025 at 4:54 pmI think I would want my child to feel the space is fun, that the teachers are kind and my kid can trust them, and that they would be treated how the other kids are treated.I guess my fears would mostly just be the opposite of these, where my kid doesn’t feel safe with the teachers, doesn’t feel the environment is engaging, and doesn’t get treated the same as other kids.
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If I’m a parent of a young child, the three things I want most from my child’s provider are: Safety, Meeting my child’s Needs, and my child’s sense of belonging. My three fears would be, the opposite of what I mentioned earlier. Unsafe environment, not tending to my child’s needs, and my child’s feeling of insecurity and being bullied by providers and classmates.
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Great insights, Teopprecil! Prioritizing safety and belonging is essential for fostering a nurturing environment for young children.
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Johnette Obey
MemberOctober 3, 2025 at 2:37 amIf I was a parent I think I would want my child’s provider to give them the support they need. Listen to my child and help them gain a good understanding of respectful conversation. And to help my child understand that their feelings are valid. I think I would be scared of the possibility of abuse and neglect. I would also be scared that they are either pushing my child too much or not pushing them enough.
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Great insights, Johnette! Your emphasis on support, communication, and understanding feelings is vital for a child’s development.
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Tiffany
MemberOctober 3, 2025 at 4:58 am#1- Safety. My child must be completely safe in all aspects.#2- Caring. My child needs to be comforted, nurtured, and cared for.#3- Educational. I want be child to learn and thrive. I want my child to learn some smarts but also learn to communicate, learn how to express their feelings, build confidence and independence, build positive relationships, etc.
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Tiffany, your insights on safety, care, and education highlight essential needs for a child’s growth and well-being. Great points!
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Nawal
MemberOctober 4, 2025 at 1:24 amIf I were the parent of a young child, the three most important things I would want from my child’s provider are to keep my child safe, to give them care and attention, and to communicate with me about how my child is doing. Three fears I might have when leaving my child in someone’s care are that my child may not be protected, may not get enough attention, or may feel left out
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Great insights, Nawal! Your emphasis on safety, attention, and communication highlights essential caregiver responsibilities.
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Savanah
MemberOctober 6, 2025 at 12:32 amThree things I would want most from my provider:1. The person to recognize me as the primary teacher and to respect that and let me know any updates on my child2. The person to be empathetic 3. The person to be knowledgeable and a good teacherThree fears I might have:1. My child getting hurt2. My child not getting the proper attention needed or proper care3. Personal issues of the care provider being projected onto my child
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Great insights, Savanah! Your emphasis on communication, empathy, and professionalism is crucial for a positive childcare experience.
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If I was a parent of a young child, three things I would want most from my child’s provider is for them to 1. Ensure the safety of my child2. Make sure my child is learning and developing 3. Open communication about my child’s milestones and red flags Three fears I might have when leaving my child under someone else’s care is1. My child being neglected 2. My child being put in unsafe environment or situations3. Not meeting their emotional needs
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Great insights, Jessi! Your focus on safety, development, and communication highlights essential parental concerns in childcare.
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If I were the parent of a young child, I’d want their provider to show genuine care, good communication, and create a safe, nurturing environment. My biggest fears would be neglect, lack of supervision, or my child feeling scared or unseen while I’m away.
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Great points, Jordyn! Your emphasis on care, communication, and safety reflects the essential needs of young children in any caregiving setting.
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