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How to approach a parent about developmental screening of their child?
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How to approach a parent about developmental screening of their child?
Trainer replied 3 months, 1 week ago 359 Members · 1,168 Reply
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Eddie
MemberMay 20, 2025 at 8:42 pmApproaching parents is always a complex issue. While some are open and receptive others might not be. Always using respectful manners, empathy and compassionate words. It can help to have a script of what I want to say, documentation and specific details and examples to use and to always let them know that we all want the same thing. To make sure we are giving the child the best opportunities available.
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Eddie, your insight into the complexities of approaching parents is commendable. Emphasizing empathy and preparedness with specific examples demonstrates a thoughtful approach to fostering collaboration for the child’s benefit. Great job!
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Brittany
MemberMay 21, 2025 at 7:49 pmI would have a one on one meeting with the patents. Express my concerns and the things I have observed. Ask the parents what their thoughts are and how they feel about my obsession. Provide information and tools to help guid them. Work together to come up with a plan to help their child reach goals.
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Brittany, your approach emphasizes collaboration and empathy, which is crucial in discussing developmental screenings. Engaging parents as partners will foster trust and support for the child’s growth. Great job!
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lizbeth Espinoza
MemberMay 22, 2025 at 4:27 amOne way to approach a parent about development screening is to set up a meeting and start with all the things the child does well and then little by little talk about what the child needs to work and how we are going to be working to help the child develop the skills needs. In other words, develop a plan and talk about what the teacher will be doing to help the child and how the family can help support the learning.
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Great job, Lizbeth! Your approach emphasizes a positive and collaborative tone, which is essential in fostering trust with parents. Highlighting strengths first creates a supportive environment for discussing developmental needs.
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Iryna Sivkovych
MemberMay 23, 2025 at 8:34 amShow parents a friendly attitude and remind them about your common goal – the well-being of their child. And then share documented objective information, based on evidence, not opinion.
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Iryna, your emphasis on a friendly approach and shared goals is spot on! Providing objective evidence fosters trust and encourages parents to engage positively in developmental screenings. Great insights!
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Here are some effective ways to tell parents in my view. Your child is doing well in many areas and gave some specifics with examples. We do screenings to check how children grow and learn. I noticed your child might need some extra support. The screening helps us understand how to help your child better.
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Poojitha, your approach is thoughtful and encouraging! Highlighting strengths while addressing the need for support fosters a positive dialogue with parents about developmental screenings. Great job!
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I think it is very important that the first time a family is made aware of a red flag is not the same time they hear about referrals. Before referrals are brought up, having meetings with the parents to share mutual observations about the student, acknowledging that their care and concern for their child is valuable, and then working together to come up with some stop-gap measures to institute both at home and at school to try are all viable first steps. A secondary meeting should then be held to compare notes and make further plans as a team. At this point, letting the family know that there are other resources available if improvement has not been seen in either setting would be the next step. Making sure that the family knows that early intervention is a really great tool to just set all kids up for success, and it does not mean that there is something wrong with them, their child, or how they parent.
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Allison, your insights emphasize the importance of open communication and collaboration with parents. Fostering a supportive environment before referrals is crucial for effective early intervention. Great work!
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I would first ask to have a meeting. I think I would start by talking about the child’s good progress and development. Then I would tell the parent, objectively, what I observed and the reason why it is concerning. I would tell them that a developmental screening could be helpful. I would provide any resources and support that I can to help.
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Hannah, your approach is thoughtful and supportive. Starting with positive observations helps build trust, and offering resources shows your commitment to the child’s well-being. Great job!
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one way I would approach the situation would be, “I want to make sure we support your child’s growth and learning, so I’d like to talk with you about the developmental screening we do to understand how they’re progressing and if they might need any extra help.” to speak on the growth of learning they will gain from it and at the same time ask questions about extra help that they might need.
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Evelyn, your approach is thoughtful and supportive! Emphasizing growth and open communication fosters a positive dialogue with parents, making them feel valued and involved in their child’s development. Great job!
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Bailey
MemberMay 29, 2025 at 12:50 amDocument. Document. Document. Factual evidence is your best friend. Turn to trusted co-teachers and directors for advice on approach. Present the evidence in a parent friendly view and include referrals outside of the school if needed/requested.
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Bailey, your emphasis on documentation and collaboration is spot on! Presenting factual evidence in a parent-friendly manner is crucial for fostering trust and understanding. Great insights!
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Viridiana
MemberMay 31, 2025 at 10:29 pmThe best way to begin a parent conversation is to first do some preparation and find out what the talking points will be. Take time to practice with another co-worker on a script and then be sure to use objective words. Lastly, have observation and data ready to share with parents as well as resources in case there’s any other services that will be helpful.
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Great insights, Viridiana! Your emphasis on preparation and using objective language is crucial for effective communication with parents. Having data and resources on hand will certainly strengthen your approach.
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Lliane
MemberJune 1, 2025 at 8:19 pm<strong data-start=”88″ data-end=”113″>Prepare ahead of time by organizing objective observations, scripting the conversation with a colleague, and knowing local referral resources.<strong data-start=”237″ data-end=”270″>Keep information confidential, sharing only with the child’s family and approved staff.<strong data-start=”331″ data-end=”369″>Speak with sensitivity and respect, starting with the child’s strengths and using non-judgmental language.<strong data-start=”444″ data-end=”480″>Explain the purpose of screening as a helpful, routine tool for supporting development.<strong data-start=”538″ data-end=”572″>Offer next steps and resources, reassuring parents of your support and keeping things confidential.<strong data-start=”612″ data-end=”648″>Be ready for emotional responses and listen with empathy.
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Lliane, your response is comprehensive and thoughtful. Preparing with objective observations and maintaining confidentiality are crucial. Your emphasis on empathy and respect will foster a supportive dialogue with parents. Great job!
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Make sure you have documented the lack of a milestone so you can discuss your findings with the parent. When talking about the child do not use language that insinuates this is the child’s or parent’s fault, instead use language that expresses concern enough to show you believe the child would benefit from further exploration into the delay, but that also expresses your support and understanding of childhood development to put the parents at ease.
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Mila Cerkic
MemberJune 3, 2025 at 8:56 pmPractice in conversation with another coworker or your boss. Preparing with a script can be helpful as well
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Great suggestion, Mila! Practicing conversations and preparing a script can boost confidence and ensure a respectful, informative approach when discussing developmental screenings with parents.
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I took the online workshop Watch Me! put out by the CDC where they cover this material. They recommend setting up a parent teacher conference. Give the parent/s a developmental checklist to fill out before the conference. During the conference, lead with the positives about the child. Then compare the parents developmental checklist and your own. Hopefully, the parents noticed the same things you’re noticing making it easy to tell them how to set up an evaluation by an expert in that field. While you may have an idea what the child has, it’s imperative to stay within your lane and send the family to an expert who will cover that. We must not tell the parents of our suspected diagnosis. Our role is just to point out the child isn’t checking enough boxes and should see an evaluation expert to see if they qualify for any services.
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Great insights, Nicole! Your approach emphasizes collaboration and positivity, which is crucial in sensitive discussions. Providing a checklist and focusing on strengths fosters a supportive environment for parents. Well done!
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make sure you have key points of development and conversation prepared and ask parents how they think their child is developing and what they value about development. It is also important to note the postive aspects of the child and how they are developing well.
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Great insights, Jake! Your emphasis on preparation and valuing parents’ perspectives fosters a collaborative approach. Highlighting positive development builds trust, making conversations more constructive and supportive.
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