Responsive exchanges with children

  • Tony Muller

    Member
    August 21, 2025 at 6:34 pm

    Exchanges provide children with security, emotional validation, and opportunities to learn and practice coping mechanisms.

    • Trainer

      Moderator
      August 24, 2025 at 7:20 am

      Great insight, Tony! Your emphasis on emotional validation highlights the importance of nurturing strong, supportive relationships with children.

  • Niktylia y.

    Member
    August 22, 2025 at 12:29 am

    Talking with children about things they’re interested in and truly listen. Activity time in areas that they enjoy and actively engage with them. Respect their feelings and emotions and provide a safe space for them.

    • Trainer

      Moderator
      August 24, 2025 at 7:16 am

      Great points, Niktylia! Engaging in their interests and respecting their feelings fosters meaningful connections and encourages open communication.

  • Corrie Laird

    Member
    August 22, 2025 at 5:06 am

    <div>Getting down on a child’s level, making eye contact, and listening closely when they share something.</div>

    • Trainer

      Moderator
      August 24, 2025 at 7:14 am

      Great examples, Corrie! Engaging at their level fosters connection and shows children their voices matter. Keep it up!

  • laisha

    Member
    August 22, 2025 at 10:14 pm

    reflecting feelings and actions CHILD “I cant do this puzzle!”TEACHER “It looks frustrating. You’re really trying hard. Lets look at it together”

    • Trainer

      Moderator
      August 24, 2025 at 7:24 am

      Great example, Laisha! Acknowledging feelings fosters a supportive environment and encourages collaboration in problem-solving.

  • Mallory B

    Member
    August 23, 2025 at 7:58 am

    Listen to the child when they are talking suggest activities to do to together to encourage them to open up, and comfort them in times of sadness

    • Trainer

      Moderator
      August 24, 2025 at 7:21 am

      Great insights, Mallory! Listening and suggesting activities fosters connection and emotional support in children’s interactions.

  • Breanna

    Member
    August 23, 2025 at 5:30 pm

    Building healthy coping skills takes time. But things to consider are buffering toxic stress, model healthy regulation, facilitate “co-regulation”, and helping build healthy routines.

  • Sarah

    Member
    August 23, 2025 at 8:05 pm

    Some examples of responsive exchanges would be listening attentively when a child has something to share, giving choices to children when they need guidance during transitions or play times, and addressing challenging behaviors gently and firmly with children.

  • Hannah Lou

    Member
    August 24, 2025 at 6:03 am

    Acknowledge feelings, encourage independence, promoting problem-solving, using clear and positive guidance. These exchanges are grounded in empathy, respect and clear communication – helping children feel seen, heard, and supported in learning and growing.

  • Fyn Rose

    Member
    August 24, 2025 at 6:32 pm

    For responsive exchanges you want to make sure you’re following the “serve and return” model, and not missing out on any serves from the children in your care. You want to be responsive and show that you are listening when they share/say things. It’s good to maintain eye contact (when appropriate) and get on their level so that they know that you’re listening to them.

  • Gabriela Franco

    Member
    August 24, 2025 at 11:14 pm

    cundo UN veo que UN nino SE frusta decirles: veo que estas molesto ,quieres que TE ayuden o lo intents Otra vez?

    • Trainer

      Moderator
      August 28, 2025 at 7:04 am

      Great example, Gabriela! Acknowledging feelings and offering help fosters emotional understanding and encourages resilience in children.

  • wendoly

    Member
    August 25, 2025 at 1:07 am

    listening to the child, daily interactions with them, help build and promote healthy strong connectionsdo activities to help relief stress

    • Trainer

      Moderator
      August 27, 2025 at 7:01 am

      Great insights, Wendoly! Listening and engaging in activities fosters strong connections and supports children’s emotional well-being. Keep it up!

  • Kos Abdi

    Member
    August 25, 2025 at 6:32 am

    Listening and acknowledging the child’s words.

    • Trainer

      Moderator
      August 27, 2025 at 7:00 am

      Great point, Kos! Acknowledging a child’s words fosters trust and encourages open communication, essential for their development.

  • Kellie

    Member
    August 27, 2025 at 7:02 pm

    Some examples would be listening and allowing the child to make a different choice and giving them the tools to make the right choice in a loving way.

  • kadra arre

    Member
    August 28, 2025 at 12:47 am

    <ul data-start=”107″ data-end=”571″>When a child shows me their drawing, I might say, <em data-start=”159″ data-end=”229″>“I see you used lots of blue and green. Tell me about your picture.” If a child says, <em data-start=”251″ data-end=”269″>“I can’t do it,” I can respond with, <em data-start=”290″ data-end=”350″>“I hear you’re feeling frustrated. Let’s try it together.” When a child shares a story, I could lean in and say, <em data-start=”409″ data-end=”459″>“Wow, that sounds exciting! What happened next?” If a child is upset, I might say, <em data-start=”498″ data-end=”569″>“I can see you’re sad. Do you want a hug or some quiet time with me?”

  • Jayme Smith

    Member
    August 28, 2025 at 9:29 am

    lots of time to talk with them about their day, playing games with them or helping them with homework.

    • Trainer

      Moderator
      September 2, 2025 at 7:01 am

      Great examples, Jayme! Engaging in conversations and play fosters strong connections and supports children’s learning and development.

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