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  • Adriana Loscher-Blanco

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    July 10, 2025 at 8:22 pm

    I have had to deal with biting in my class…I have had to deal With that as a mother. The first time it happened I was firm with my child (he was a bit older) and explained them that it hurt me. I actually showed him my teeth and told him: “My teeth are big and I don’t bite you because I can hurt you…I love you and I will never want to hurt you.”

  • April

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    July 10, 2025 at 11:22 pm

    I’ve been in a situation where a child bit me and other teachers on the arm. Once that happend I said, ” bitting hurts me.” “You must be hungry. Here is a cracker for you.” During pick up, I make sure I mention the bitting to the parents. The parents were very sorry about the bitting and told me the next day the parets said there child said reason why their child started to bite because my child was hungery. Their child apologies to me and has stop bitting , because i have timed each day how often this child was hungry and I make sure I offer a small snack to avoid bitting in the future.

  • Alicia

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    July 11, 2025 at 3:10 am

    Children biting is very stressful, but it does happen. When a child bites another friend I say “Ow please don’t bite my friend, that’s an owie.” Using phrases like that is direct, but helps children understand that biting hurts and we don’t want to hurt our friends.

  • Danni

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    July 13, 2025 at 8:47 pm

    when children struggle with transition. i create predicable routines and provides clears warning to ease their anxiety. for children who have difficulty sharing. I use timers and visual cues to teach turn taking in a concrete way. during circle time. I offer fidget tools and movement breaks to help restless children stay engaged. when inappropriate language occurs, I calmly model correct words while explaining our expectation

  • Erika Esselbach

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    July 15, 2025 at 4:21 am

    We’ve definitely had biting situations happen in the classroom. Prevention is ideal but sometimes still just doesn’t work. The process is different with every kid but the first step is separation and checking on each kid individually and calming them both down. Then we have a talk about our emotions and how to handle it better next time. Then finally taking note of which kids are most likely to bite and their triggers to avoid future incidents.

  • Brianna Marino

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    July 15, 2025 at 9:35 am

    I have had many situations of biting over the years. One that stands out is from a while back. I had a boy who bit another student so hard through his shirt, that it broke the skin and was bleeding. I immediately separated the kids, and had the aide talk with the child who bit while I comforted and cared for the child who was bit. Once the child who was bit was cleaned and calmed down I asked them to explain what happened. My boss called the child’s parents and explained the story. Eventually, I was able to talk with the child who bit. His story matched the other child. I explained why biting is not okay and then guided him through a conversation with questions on how to handle his anger in the future.

  • Yejin

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    July 18, 2025 at 1:46 am

    I had a 3 year old who was biting another student in class. I redirected him with the topic he likes to talk about or the material he was interested in (like a playdough). Also, I told him “please use words”. I observed him and I noticed that he bites others whenever he feels upset. So, we read books about feelings and had social thinking circle in the classroom with specialist every week, along with an active conversation with his parents for consistency.

  • roxana

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    July 19, 2025 at 6:56 pm

    hopefully I will never encounter this issue but if I do then I will make sure the safety of the child first, comfort the child, address the situation calmly, teach better communication methods and see if an apology can be given.

  • Grace

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    July 20, 2025 at 8:02 pm

    Yes, I have dealt with biting, in fact I was recently in a situation where I child bit my nephew. I did not know the other child as this was in a public play space but I immediately removed the child’s mouth from my nephews arm before he even realized she was try to bite him. I think as when many challenging behavior, close observation is essential. First in order to understand the behavior and second to prevent it from escalating. I think arranging the environment so children have other ways to express their emotions is helpful.

  • Hernestor Ramirez Diaz

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    July 24, 2025 at 8:31 am

    Yes, I’ve dealt with biting in child care. I respond calmly by separating the children, comforting the victim, and firmly but gently telling the biter that biting hurts and is not okay. I redirect the child and help them express feelings with words or gestures instead. To reduce incidents, I watch for triggers like frustration or teething, offer sensory tools, and model gentle behavior consistently to create a safe, respectful environment.

  • Nizandra

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    July 25, 2025 at 1:42 am

    Yes I’ve dealt with biting. I stay calm, check the hurt child and tell the child who bit, “Biting hurts.” I watch for triggers like wanting a toy and help them use words. To prevent biting; I keep routines and praise gentle touches.

  • Mandy Wray

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    July 28, 2025 at 1:20 am

    Biting is a common, though challenging, behavior in young children, particularly toddlers and preschoolers. Understanding why children bite and implementing proactive strategies are key to reducing incidents and fostering a supportive environment.

  • Sandra

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    August 1, 2025 at 8:09 pm

    I have experienced a biting scenario once and I <b style=”font-family: inherit; font-size: inherit;”>stay calmed, comforted the child who was hurt, and gently but firmly told the biter:“Biting hurts. We don’t bite our friends.”In order to avoid this scenario in my class, I help them find better ways to express their feelings—like using words or asking for help—and follow up with parents if needed.

  • Catherine Hutting

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    August 6, 2025 at 7:20 pm

    Have you dealt with kids biting in your care?I am a two’s teacher so biting phases happens at least once a year, if not more in my class. How do you handle it, and what tips do you have for creating a positive environment that reduces biting incidents among children?I first try to figure out why the child is biting (hunger, overstimulation, attention, sensory, etc) and the react based on those factors. My tip to teachers dealing with this behavior is to remain calm!

  • luis

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    August 6, 2025 at 9:47 pm

    No, he tenido situaciones en las que los niños experimenten una mordedura. Pero en esta situation hay que entender que lo causo Ya Sea que se trate de la frustración o una necesidad de atención, podemos identificar que causo esa situation para. Implementar formas alternativas para que se expresen, como usar la comunicación y la orientation de la attention hacia otra actividad

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