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Emotional regulation in children
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Emotional regulation in children
Alma Hernandez replied 1 month, 1 week ago 271 Members · 1,082 Reply
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Kaylee Capps
MemberDecember 16, 2023 at 3:20 amGiving children time to speak about their emotions, plus explaining the names of each emotion and how they feel to the child are the best ways.
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Name the emotion they are feeling in that moment and then give them a tangible way to handle the emotion they are experiencing.
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Kevaughn
MemberDecember 19, 2023 at 6:30 pmby asking them to tell you how they feel and if theres anything you can do to help
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The best way to help children recognize their emotions and control their responses is by letting them speak without interruption, or to let them cry it out so they can let it all out then they can calm down and breath. You can ask them why this upset them or show them what they can do instead of lashing out on something or crying it out.
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Raagini
MemberDecember 25, 2023 at 10:00 amWorking together to identify the emotion they are feeling (asking “are you feeling _? and repeating until the child gives an affirmative answer), identifying the situation behind the emotion, asking what would help or offering solutions as options
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Olivia Johnson
MemberDecember 26, 2023 at 8:23 pmBy hearing them not interrupting them. Asking them questions.
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The best ways to help children recognize their emotions is letting them identify what it is when calmly asking how they feel, or giving them a couple of examples. For example, if a child is agitated and shouting, I may ask them, Do you feel frustrated, angry, or sad right now?
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Since each child is different, each one should be approached differently when they need help regulating their emotions. You can’t hold a hot tea kettle, just as you can’t explain anything to a fired up child. Helping them calm down first is always a good step before continuing anything with them. Some children want to talk through what is upsetting them while others just want comfort from you until they’re ready to speak. Being there for them, listening when they’re ready, suggesting different things to help are all good ways to help a child.
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Brophy Lee
MemberDecember 28, 2023 at 5:49 pmChildren can be taught to better recognize their emotions using labeling and a feelings chart, and also how to respond to specific emotions, such as calming breaths.
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Abby Grayson
MemberDecember 28, 2023 at 6:07 pmA good way for children to recognize their emotions and control their responses is to let them express all of their feelings so they know they are heard, and helping them problem solve with maybe a break with silence. I have found that children tend to calm down when they are able to express how they feel and know that they are being listened to.
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Kylie
MemberDecember 28, 2023 at 11:00 pmread books that talk about emotions, give the kids the language they need to identify their emotions, follow up with them later
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Lizeth
MemberDecember 29, 2023 at 4:57 amwhen students are calm, role-play, after that it could a mediation like relax techniques such yoga , and breath for seconds, and exercise outside or classroom to be comfortable
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Jeannee Winterroth
MemberDecember 29, 2023 at 7:19 am-
Choose the Right Time: It’s important to conduct these sessions when the child is already calm and receptive. This might be after a relaxing activity or at a regular calm time in their daily schedule.
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Role-Play Scenarios: Gently role-play scenarios that might trigger frustration or anxiety in the child. This could involve scenarios like not getting a turn, dealing with a difficult task, or experiencing a minor setback. Keep the tone light and ensure the child understands it’s just a simulation.
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Introduce Self-Calming Techniques: Teach the child various self-calming techniques. These could include:
- Deep breathing exercises
- Counting slowly
- Using a stress ball or fidget toy
- Thinking of a happy place or memory
- Simple yoga poses or stretches
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Practice in the Designated Space: Practice these techniques in the specific area you want the child to use them in. This could be a “calm corner” or a specific spot in the classroom. The idea is to create a psychological association between the space and the calming techniques.
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Use Visual Aids: Visual reminders in the designated space can reinforce the techniques. These might include posters of breathing exercises, emotion charts, or calming images.
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Reinforce with Positive Reinforcement: After each practice session, offer positive reinforcement. This could be verbal praise, a sticker, or a note in a ‘calm achievements’ diary.
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Involve Other Children: If appropriate, involve other children in the practice. This not only normalizes the practice of self-calming but also encourages peer support and learning.
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Regular Review and Adaptation: Regularly review the effectiveness of the techniques and be open to adapting them according to the child’s evolving needs and responses.
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Parental Involvement: If possible, involve parents by giving them tips on reinforcing these techniques at home. Consistency across home and school environments can be very beneficial.
By incorporating these practices into the daily routine, you can help children develop the skills they need to manage their emotions effectively. This approach aligns well with your role as a Child Care Assistant Director, emphasizing a nurturing and supportive learning environment.
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Priyanka Pathak
MemberDecember 30, 2023 at 12:52 amFor all ages I would use a calm, supportive tone and make sure my body language was focused on the child, facing them and giving them my full attention.
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Tirengo
MemberDecember 30, 2023 at 5:46 amThe best way is to let them express their feelings and feel safe to do so. If they keep it in it is not good for their mental health so knowing that it is safe for them to express their emotions or given a way too (such as speaking, sign, writing, etc) helps them know their emotions and know what to do with them or control them.