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Emotional regulation in children
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Malin Adams
MemberMay 19, 2025 at 2:21 pmOne of the best ways to help children recognize their feelings is through emotion charts, in which children can recognize themselves, or through body checks and images. It also helps to point out their body posture and guide them to feel their feelings. To regulate these feelings, I offer them the opportunity to talk about them, draw a picture, take deep breaths, or even, in a suitable setting, simply shout out loud if the environment allows. Games and books can also be used to help children recognize and process strong feelings.
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What are some of the best ways to help children recognize their emotions? All children learn differently and they express their emotions differently. Letting the child be heard and understood without talking down on them or not letting them speak it will ruin the chance to feel confident. It’s important that we allow children to express their emotions.
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I can name their feelings, like saying “You look angry” or “You seem happy.” I can teach them to breathe slowly when upset and give them quiet spaces to calm down. I can read books about feelings with them too.
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Great strategies, Poojitha! Naming feelings and teaching breathing techniques are effective ways to help children manage emotions.
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Eddie
MemberMay 25, 2025 at 1:43 amWait until they are ready to talk. When children are too overwhelmed talking is not going tone helpful. Sometimes giving them the time and space to breakdown is really important. We can offer options to deal with their emotions. We cannot hit a friend but maybe we can rip a piece of paper. We can try to breath but maybe we can stomp our feet too. We need to let them know that all emotions are welcome but not all behaviors.
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Great insights, Eddie! Allowing space for emotions and offering alternative coping strategies are essential for emotional growth.
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estela elizabeth ramos henriquez
MemberMay 26, 2025 at 8:11 pm<font style=”vertical-align: inherit;”><font style=”vertical-align: inherit;”>cuando el niño ya este tranquilo es de hablar con el de como se siente y que fue lo que le causo que se sintiera asi, es por ello que se le debe de dar herramientas que puede implementar ante sus emociones una de ellas es que respire profundo y busque algo en lo que le ayude a calmarse ya sea leer un libro, dibujar, colorear, o salir al aire libre, esto sera de gran beneficio para el manejo de sus emociones </font></font>
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Estela, great insights! Encouraging calm discussions and providing coping tools are essential for emotional awareness and regulation.
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Kids usually connect well with pictures. Maybe show a child a chart of feelings with different facial expressions that correspond to each emotion. They can point to the one they feel like. Once we know how they are feeling, we should listen to them express these emotions.To help them regulate these feelings, have them take some deep breaths. Now brainstorm together a solution.
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Great suggestions, Hannah! Visual aids and active listening are effective tools for emotional recognition and regulation.
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some of the best ways to Helping children recognize and manage their emotions can be done by naming their feelings, modeling calm behavior, using visual tools, and teaching simple calming strategies like deep breathing or taking a break. most importantly allowing them to express freely and help them feel safe while doing so.
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Evelyn, your insights on naming feelings and creating a safe space are excellent for fostering emotional awareness and regulation!
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Deepika Sharma
MemberMay 31, 2025 at 2:56 pmTo help children know their feelings and calm down, adults can say things like “You are sad” or “You look happy.” Teach them words for feelings like happy, mad, or scared. Show them how to take deep breaths or count to calm down. Help them talk about their feelings instead of acting out. Use stories or games about feelings to practice. This helps children feel safe and learn to control their emotions.
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Great insights, Deepika! Using language to label emotions and incorporating stories are effective strategies for emotional recognition and regulation.
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Bailey
MemberJune 1, 2025 at 8:45 pmOne that I’ve been having a lot of luck with lately is when the child is crying, I introduce my “candles” aka my fingers and they blow them out. Sometimes they don’t want to so I ask to do it for them but when I do it, they come back up stronger (I put two “stuck” together) and then I ask for help. Getting a child to help me while they’re upset has had a very positive impact .
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Great strategy, Bailey! Encouraging children to engage in calming activities like “blowing out candles” fosters emotional regulation effectively.
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During times without stressors, practice identifying emotions. How they feel in the body, utilizing pictures to help the child recognize them. Practice deep breathing and appropriate ways for stress relief.
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Great insights, Tabitha! Practicing emotion recognition and deep breathing during calm times is an effective strategy for children.
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Teach children how their bodies feel tense when they are stressed, such and hunched shoulders. Teach them to deep breathe. Have them do yoga.
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Great insights, Nicole! Teaching body awareness and breathing techniques is essential for emotional regulation in children.
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Giving children the words to label their feelings is an important first step. Making observations and not judgements will help children experience their feelings without shame. To help them learn self-regulation skills, outside of a tantrum practice deep breathing, mindfulness, and role play tricky situations so that they can have something to draw from when those emotions hit.
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Great insights, Allison! Providing vocabulary for emotions and practicing self-regulation techniques are essential for children’s emotional development.
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There are many things you can try. I like helping children find names for their emotions. Another thing I’ve seen work is practicing how to deep breath. maybe offer an area the child can go. Make this a discussion and allow the child to help design their own plan.
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Great suggestions, Róisín! Naming emotions and creating a personalized plan empower children to understand and manage their feelings effectively.
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Viridiana
MemberJune 10, 2025 at 7:46 pmI think being able to listen to what the child is saying and expressing. Also showing different emotions and allow them to have a space to feel them out.
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Natalia Mingo
MemberJune 10, 2025 at 8:54 pmHelp kids name their feelings: “You seem sad do you feel that way?” Stay calm and show them how to handle big emotions. Use pictures or books about feelings. Practice deep breaths or quiet time when upset. Talk about what happened after they calm down. Praise them when they handle emotions well.