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Emotional regulation in children
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Emotional regulation in children
Alma Hernandez replied 1 month, 1 week ago 271 Members · 1,082 Reply
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Claire Lindal
MemberDecember 17, 2025 at 7:22 pmValidate all emotions. Ask questions while looking them in the eyes to understand their feelings. Try to guide them to looking into their bodies and ask where they feel upset.
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marjorie sanchez
MemberDecember 18, 2025 at 5:00 am– Nombra y valida: “Veo que estás frustrado; tu cuerpo está tenso.” Usa tarjetas/termómetros de emociones.- Modela y co‑regula: voz calmada, respiración 4-6, cuenta regresiva, presión profunda; practica cuando están tranquilos.- Enseña pasos simples: 1) Para y respira, 2) Nombra la emoción, 3) Elige una estrategia (agua, espacio calma, pedir ayuda), 4) Soluciona.- Espacio/calmas y herramientas: rincón tranquilo, timer, libro antiestrés, movimientos/estiramientos, opciones sensoriales.- Historias sociales y juego de roles para ensayar respuestas.- Reforzamiento específico cuando usan las estrategias; recordatorios visuales y rutinas predecibles.- Elecciones limitadas y lenguaje sencillo para mantener el control y reducir escaladas.- Breves check-ins emocionales al inicio/cierre del día y coordinación con la familia.
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Great insights, Marjorie! Your strategies for emotional recognition and regulation are practical and comprehensive. Well done!
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One thing I love to do with my grandchildren is to have yoga cards about enotions to help regulate them and on the cards it has feelings on them and we talk about them as well and how to better manage them next time.
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Great idea, Brandi! Using yoga cards to discuss emotions fosters awareness and encourages positive coping strategies in children.
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Jwalitha Kommineni
MemberDecember 21, 2025 at 7:25 amHelping children recognize their emotions and control their responses is most effective when it is intentional, consistent, and practiced during calm moments. The goal is to build skills before children are overwhelmed. Some of the best strategies include: Name and normalize emotions, Use role-play and modeling, Teach self-calming techniques, Create a calming space
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Great insights, Jwalitha! Your emphasis on consistency and proactive strategies is essential for fostering emotional intelligence in children.
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Hope Blom
MemberDecember 22, 2025 at 5:02 amAdults can help children recognize their emotions by naming and validating their feelings and modeling calm behavior. Teaching simple coping strategies like deep breathing, taking breaks, and problem solving help children learn to control their response.
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Great insights, Hope! Validating feelings and modeling calmness are essential. Simple strategies really empower children to manage their emotions effectively.
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Whitney Riojas
MemberDecember 22, 2025 at 6:25 amI would say asking the child how they feel and why they feel that way such as what it was caused by. To help the child understand the feelings they are feeling.
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Great insight, Whitney! Encouraging children to articulate their feelings fosters emotional awareness and understanding. Keep it up!
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Wanda Wade
MemberDecember 26, 2025 at 6:01 pm·Help children name feelings like “happy,” “sad,” or “frustrated.”·Give kids a safe space to discuss emotions and listen closely.·Model healthy emotional responses for kids to follow.·Teach simple coping skills, such as deep breathing or positive self-talk, and practice together.
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Emilie Han
MemberDecember 27, 2025 at 8:18 pmI like to make observations on what I am seeing “looks like you might be frustrated right now” then redirect them to a new activity
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Great approach, Emilie! Observing and naming emotions helps children understand their feelings and encourages positive redirection.
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Jam
MemberDecember 30, 2025 at 8:20 pmMy go to is narrating what I’m seeing, without judgement. For example, if I see kids running around the classroom screaming, I might say, “I see that your body has a lot of energy right now. But we are inside, not outside- is not safe to run inside! Would you like to have a dance party, or get out our obstacle course?”
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Eliana
MemberJanuary 2, 2026 at 9:12 pmBy pre-practicing how to handle the emotions at times the child is already calm and at peace, preparing the child for when their emotions may be high.
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Great insight, Eliana! Pre-practicing emotional responses during calm moments is an effective strategy for emotional regulation.
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To help children recognize and mange their emotions, caregivers can label feelings, model calm behavior, and teach coping straregies like deep breathing or using words to express emotions.
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Great insights, Cayleigh! Labeling feelings and modeling calm behavior are essential for emotional development. Well done!
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Some of the best ways to help children recognize their emotions and control their responses start with co-regulation and modeling. Children learn emotional regulation by watching calm, responsive adults. When caregivers stay calm, get to the child’s eye level, and use a warm, steady tone, children begin to mirror that regulation.Using emotion labeling tools such as feelings charts, emotion thermometers, and body checks helps children build the language to identify what they are feeling. For example, naming emotions (“You look frustrated”) and connecting them to physical cues (“Your fists are tight and your shoulders are tense”) helps children recognize emotions in their bodies.Practicing self-calming strategies during calm moments is also key. Role-playing frustration, practicing deep breathing, movement, mindfulness, and sensory activities gives children tools they can use later when emotions are high.Creating predictable routines and safe spaces supports emotional control by helping children feel secure. When children feel safe and connected, they are more able to access their thinking brain and make better choices.Finally, listening, validating emotions, and guiding problem-solving after the child is regulated helps build long-term self-regulation. Validating feelings while setting clear limits teaches children that emotions are okay, but not all behaviors are.
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Mita, your insights on co-regulation and emotion labeling are spot on! These strategies foster a supportive environment for emotional growth. Great job!
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Label Emotions by Help children put words to feelings: “You seem angry because your block tower fell.”This builds emotional vocabulary and awareness.Model Emotional Regulation, Show calm responses to frustration or stress: “I’m feeling frustrated, so I’m taking a deep breath.”Children learn by watching adults handle emotions. Validate Feelings Acknowledge emotions without judgment: “It’s okay to feel sad when we have to leave the playground. “Helps children feel understood and safe.
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Great insights, Tereza! Your suggestions on labeling emotions and modeling regulation are essential for fostering emotional intelligence in children.
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SERGE MONDESIR
MemberJanuary 19, 2026 at 11:06 pmWe can help children recognize and regulate their emotions by naming their feelings, listening calmly, and modeling healthy ways to cope.
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Skyler Foster
MemberJanuary 23, 2026 at 2:02 amOne of my go to ways to help children recognize their emotions it’s having them to stop and breathe. Most of the time when children are getting worked up in our fill of emotions they forget to breathe. By reminding them to take a moment and inhale and exhale so they can refocus on what’s going on beginning explained their emotions and we can help them resolve them
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Great insight, Skyler! Teaching deep breathing is a powerful tool for emotional regulation and self-awareness in children.
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