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Emotional regulation in children
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Emotional regulation in children
Alma Hernandez replied 1 month, 1 week ago 271 Members · 1,082 Reply
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The best ways to help children recognize their emotions and control their responses is by asking them how they are feeling when they act out or are dealing with big emotions.
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Great point, Fadumo! Asking children about their feelings encourages self-awareness and emotional regulation skills.
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I’ve found that some of the best ways to help children recognize their emotions and control their responses are practicing self-calming and using role play. For example, when children are calm, we can act out frustrating situations and practice deep breathing together.I like using a stuffed animal to guide breathing: placing it on their chest while inhaling deeply and lifting it as they exhale slowly, like smelling a flower and gently blowing out a candle. Practicing in the space where they normally go when frustrated also helps them use these techniques effectively.Overall, short, daily, guided practice combined with play helps children recognize their emotions and learn to manage them better.
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Great insights, Itzabella! Your strategies, especially using role play and stuffed animals, provide engaging ways for children to learn emotional regulation.
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Alexis Croxford
MemberNovember 30, 2025 at 6:31 pmI think letting the child express how he or she feels, makes them feel seen. That’s then when you can step in and redirect the situation to help reduce the emotion in the child.
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Great insight, Alexis! Validating feelings is essential for emotional awareness and fostering healthy coping strategies.
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Kristin
MemberDecember 1, 2025 at 4:24 amSome positive ways to help them recognize their emotions is by pointing out the signs, practicing them when they are calm and talking about them daily
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Great insights, Kristin! Engaging in daily conversations about emotions fosters awareness and understanding in children.
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Sarah
MemberDecember 1, 2025 at 8:07 amBy describing how a child looks during times of high emotion, describe what that emotion looks like on them. over time, the child will learn to identify these signs of frustration without your cues, and be able to identify what emotion they are experiencing. By doing this, they are moving into the upper part of the brain where they can analyze their emotions and actions
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Great insight, Sarah! Helping children recognize emotional cues fosters self-awareness and promotes emotional regulation skills effectively.
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Faisa
MemberDecember 3, 2025 at 10:00 pmSome of the best ways to help children recognize their emotions and control their responses include using feeling charts or body checks to help them identify how they feel, modeling calm behavior through co-regulation, and practicing deep breathing and other calming techniques when they are having big feelings. Role-play and daily practice also help children learn how to manage frustration, while positive relationships and supportive communication make them feel safe enough to express and regulate their emotions.
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Great insights, Faisa! Your suggestions on modeling behavior and using tools like feeling charts are practical and effective strategies for emotional regulation.
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A great way to help children express their emotions is to really sit and listen to what they are saying. Immediately offering a solution that might not be useful to what the child needs prior to hearing the problem can often make things worse. Instead, talking through a problem calmly and then finding a solution together is better for the child.
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Great insight, Innovators! Active listening fosters trust and helps children articulate their emotions effectively. Well said!
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Jeremy Mann
MemberDecember 7, 2025 at 1:59 amCarpet time, first thing in the morning. Make it a routine, show them that emotional intelligence is important for growth. Have signs everywhere, so it’s easily accessible in times of need. I also wear a visual image that emotions around my neck.
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Great ideas, Jeremy! Establishing routines and visual cues can significantly enhance children’s emotional awareness and management skills.
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Catherine Tolentino
MemberDecember 7, 2025 at 3:36 amSome of the best ways to help children recognize their emotions and control their responses is by allowing them to speak and express their emotions as well as possibly narrating the physical attributes of the emotions they’re feeling. For example, “I see you’re upset and sad because you are crying and have tears streaming down your face. Is there any way I can help?” Maybe a feelings chart would also be helpful so children can point out their emotions using visuals.
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Great insights, Catherine! Encouraging expression and using visuals like a feelings chart are effective strategies for emotional recognition.
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mckenzie
MemberDecember 8, 2025 at 9:03 amA lot of the time children do not have the words for what they are feeling, so tactile options are helpful. Letting them squeeze something soft when they might seem angry, having them take deep breaths in and out (can help with many emotions). Any safe and constructive way they can get those emotions out is great! We need to make sure we are there to listen, support, and keep them safe.
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Great insights, McKenzie! Tactile tools and breathing techniques are effective strategies for emotional regulation and support.
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Lauryn Lopez
MemberDecember 11, 2025 at 4:24 amThe best ways to help children recognize and control their emotions involve consistent use of two core strategies such as recognizing and validating feelings and teaching self-regulation skills
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Great insights, Lauryn! Recognizing and validating emotions is essential for fostering self-regulation in children. Well said!
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Jessica encinas
MemberDecember 12, 2025 at 9:13 amSome of the best ways to help children recognize their emotions and control their responses is by asking them how they’re feeling when they act out or are dealing with big emotions it’s often hard for them to know how to control all their emotions , as we know as adults it can even be hard for us sometimes . It’s very encouraging to allow them to feel heard and validated , and the importance of letting them know you understood every word .
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Jessica, your insights on validating children’s feelings and encouraging open communication are essential for fostering emotional awareness and regulation. Great points!
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Brittany
MemberDecember 13, 2025 at 11:20 pmTeaching children to effectively communicate how hey are feeling can be a very stressful task! One key option for teaching can be verbally asking the child to think through what they should do next “alright, what can we do next to make ourselves feel better during this hard time..? We can… breathe, take some space, ask for help, ask for a hug, say sorry… etc.” so verbally walking them through the actions I think is very effective.
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Great insight, Brittany! Verbal guidance empowers children to express emotions and develop healthy coping strategies. Keep it up!
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Hannah
MemberDecember 15, 2025 at 5:40 amHelp children to recognize their emotions by asking what they are upset about, and then tell them what kind of emotion that you observe them having.
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kidane Beyene
MemberDecember 17, 2025 at 2:46 am<strong data-start=”104″ data-end=”138″>Naming and validating feelings (for example, “You look frustrated”) so children learn emotion words and feel understood.<strong data-start=”233″ data-end=”259″>Modeling calm behavior, since children learn how to respond by watching adults.<strong data-start=”321″ data-end=”351″>Teaching coping strategies such as deep breathing, counting, taking a break, or using calm-down spaces.<strong data-start=”433″ data-end=”474″>Listening and responding with empathy, which is helps children feel safe and supported.<strong data-start=”526″ data-end=”553″>Using positive guidance, telling children what to do instead of what not to do.<strong data-start=”614″ data-end=”655″>Practicing emotional skills regularly throughout stories, role-play, and everyday conversations.