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What to do when parents are late to pick up their child?
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What to do when parents are late to pick up their child?
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I would talk to Mrs.Hopkins about the situation ask her what’s going on and ask her if we could help her with anything. But also I would explain the consequences about picking up late. I would peak to her in a polite and professional manner and try to understand her side.
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I think it’s important to have a policy that deals with late pick ups. This is not the end all be all, but it is a handy thing to point to when discussing lateness. I think bringing it up to the parent on the day that they are late and letting them know that it’s something that can’t keep happening is better to do sooner than later. That being said, I supposed it depends on why they’re late and if this is the first time or the third time.
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I think it’s important to ask how you can help Mrs. Hopkins with her tardy appearances. Maybe there is an unknown there that is causing the issue that you could help design a solution. My facility has a monetary fee in place for late pickups. But, I think it’s always important to ask what’s going on first and then address the issue with a professional manner.
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<div>Mrs. Hopkins, we understand that sometimes things can run late. However, we need to maintain our schedule for the well-being of all the children and staff. Could we discuss if there’s a way, we can support you in ensuring timely pickup?
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“Hi Mrs. Hopkins. Before you leave I would like to speak with you briefly about our pick up policy. First let me start by saying I love having your child in my class. It seems lately you have struggled with picking him/her up on time. But this isn’t always the case. Has there been a shift in your work schedule or is there another factor that is preventing you from arriving at the designated pick up time? I would love to work with you to find ways to better support you in these efforts.”
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I would talk to the father of the family, who I have noticed that he is often late to pick up the child and that if he has any problems in what I can support him, since those delays affect the child’s emotional system because he is always the last to leave.
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In the event that a parent has been late multiple times to pick up a child and the most recent time being late as much as 20 minutes after closing, I would have a conversation with them and let them know that this would be the final warning and if they can’t plan accordingly to get their child that maybe a schedule change needs to take place.
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First, I would ensure I sensitively approached the topic through asking questions; “I noticed this is the third time in two weeks you have been late to pickup your child. I just want to make sure everything is OK. Is the schedule no longer working for you?” Depending on the parent’s reply, I would reference any WACs that support the need to be on time (i.e. if it is over 10-hours) and then to the parent handbook policies.
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I would approach the situation with understanding and attempt to figure out why Mrs. Hopkins has been late. Is there additional support needed or would it be best to change schedules? I’d like to work with her to find a better solution. If she is in violation of our state or center expectations, we would have to discuss these expectations clearly to ensure understanding on her part.
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Acknowledge that the mother is aware of the pick-up time, if she is not remind her of the pick-up time, and that you understand that there may be traffic or other hinderances at this time. However, being 20 min late more than once means that this schedule may not be working out. Let her know how her child feels when they notice that they are the last one left behind and that this causes anxiety for her child. Discuss whether or not this program and its location is a good fit for her family. If being late becomes consistent it could become an unnecessary stress for the child and can cause further issues and with the child best interest in mind the program may not be a good fit.
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letting the mother know that this cannot keep going on every time. once in a while when things come up, it is okay we cant control that. when it becomes a pattern is where the problem starts, not only does it affect the child but it is slightly disrespectful to the early learning provider.
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Positive Communication Techniques:
1. **Express Understanding and Empathy**:
– “I understand that sometimes things can get hectic and it’s not always easy to be on time.”
2. **Discuss the Impact and Set Boundaries**:
– “When children are picked up late, it can be difficult for the staff as we have other responsibilities after closing time.”
3. **Offer Solutions and Support**:
– “Is there something specific that’s causing delays? Maybe we can brainstorm some solutions together.”
4. **Reiterate Policies Kindly**:
– “We appreciate your understanding of our closing time policy and how it helps us provide the best care for all children.”
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I would start by asking if the schedule is not working or if there is a reason that they are always late. I would then explain that everyone’s time is valuable and that their child is missing out on time at home with them as well as now providers are giving up their time that is normally spent doing closing duties to stay late with their child. I would then try to help come up with a solution depending on what the reason may be for the tardiness.
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by informing them with empathy
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I would ask Mrs. Hopkins what is keeping her from picking her child up on time and we
could brainstorm ideas of how to get to school on time together. I would also
communicate that this pattern impacts not just the child, but also the staff who have
other responsibilities. Perhaps there could be some sort of agreement on consequences
if behavior doesn’t change.
