Can you think of an example of a person who had a significant early childhood experience that impacted them in the future, whether good or bad?
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Can you think of an example of a person who had a significant early childhood experience that impacted them in the future, whether good or bad?
Aujurey Flagg replied 1 day, 8 hours ago 3 Members · 868 Replies
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Christina Altermott
GuestDecember 17, 2025 at 9:09 pmMy daughter was in Head Start, and she loved it. Her teacher was always smiling and always had a positive, kind word for her in the morning. Even on the days she would cry and not separate easily. She loved school and hated to miss a day.
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Susan Mulvey
GuestDecember 18, 2025 at 3:38 amAn acquaintance who was the first face to be seen when people arrived at an event – if she was having a bad day (which is quite often) she frowned while welcoming guests. Really set a negative tone and the attendees shied away from her. And these were adults – just think how children would feel!
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Great observation, Susan! It’s true that early experiences, even with adults, can profoundly affect children’s emotional development and social interactions.
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Madeleine
GuestDecember 18, 2025 at 5:01 amI had a coworker who would always arrive in a grumpy mood and acted like she didn’t want to be there. The class suffered from it and the children grew to have a negative assosiation with the room and teacher.
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Great observation, Madeleine! It highlights how adult attitudes can shape children’s experiences and perceptions in significant ways.
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Lana Bauer
GuestDecember 18, 2025 at 12:49 pmMy daughter was in daycare from 4 weeks until second grade. She has developed amazing interpersonal skills. Is outgoing, well versed, articulate and willing to engage in conversations. I strongly believe her early experiences account for this!
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hannah
GuestDecember 18, 2025 at 3:39 pmWhen children and parents come in to the room in the morning it is best to greet them with a smile . Teachers openly communicating with parents lets them and their child know they are safe rather than telling them bluntly “you are safe” .
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Great insight, Hannah! Your emphasis on warm greetings and communication underscores the importance of creating a nurturing environment for children.
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Laurel
GuestDecember 18, 2025 at 8:39 pmI’ve worked in early childhood for many years. And over these years I’ve worked with a number of children who have lost a parent (to illness, in an accident, or to violence). Though some feel more shocking to me as an adult, the impact on the child is always profound, and lingers through adulthood. Even children who have lost a family member before they were born feel the loss, and will use their words and actions to feel their way through the loss.
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Krista
GuestDecember 19, 2025 at 3:52 amBoth of my children had very positive experiences in their early childhood school years. The teachers were kind and excited. It made my kids excited to learn. My son’s preschool was a cooperative program and that is what ignited my passion to work in the field. I saw firsthand what a positive, welcoming environment can do for children.
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Great reflection, Krista! Your personal experience highlights the profound impact of nurturing educators on children’s enthusiasm for learning.
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Amber
GuestDecember 19, 2025 at 6:54 pmI had a friend who I grew up with. We were from the same village, our parents went to school together and we had a bunch of classes together. He came from a family who struggled with addiction and following the law. His family struggled with addiction for generations. I remember we would meet up before school and walk together to catch the bus. One morning he didn’t show. I remember walking to the bus stop and seeing a whole bunch of unmarked cars and SWAT speeding through the village and surrounded my friend’s house. I saw his parents and older siblings on the ground in handcuffs, while he and his younger siblings were with law enforcements. His family got busted for selling/using drugs, child abuse/neglect, possession of firearms without a valid license and other charges. My friend and his siblings had to stay with different family members. Later on down the line, my friend too started making poor decisions and going down the wrong path. When I would check on him occasionally, he would say, “This is all I know. This is what I have to do to take care of me and my siblings.” and it was so heartbreaking.
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Amber, your reflection highlights the profound impact of early childhood experiences on future choices. Thank you for sharing this poignant story.
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Black
GuestDecember 19, 2025 at 7:54 pmI remember loving one of my babysitters because she always seemed so happy to have me around.
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Great insight, Black! Positive early experiences, like your babysitter’s warmth, can significantly shape our future relationships and self-esteem.
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Leslie
GuestDecember 20, 2025 at 9:47 pmI found that smile at a child and even infant brought me closer to that person.
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Great insight, Leslie! Smiles can create strong emotional connections, fostering trust and positive relationships from an early age.
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Samantha
GuestDecember 21, 2025 at 11:08 pmI had a nanny who taught me that kindness is contagious and helps people around to become happier and more fun. She was supportive, even when I messed up, and trusted me to do hard things. She always asked how I was feeling, and if it wasn’t happy, she would tell me that was ok, that all feelings matter. She inspired me to instill the same knowledge with others.
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Samantha, your reflection beautifully highlights the lasting impact of kindness and emotional support. It’s inspiring to see how you’ve embraced those values!
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emily burgess
GuestDecember 22, 2025 at 7:20 pmI had an experience that caused me to question my self worth for awhile. In third grade my ADHD started to come out and a teacher didn’t recognize the signs of this. I was consistently not able to go to recess and was given consequences for my lack of focus.
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Michelle Gantt
GuestDecember 23, 2025 at 6:24 ammy early childhood 5th grade teacher always in a great mood caring and always had a smile on her face ms.victoria I will never forget her
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Great reflection, Michelle! Ms. Victoria’s positivity clearly left a lasting impact on you. Teachers can truly shape our experiences!
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Chelsea B.
GuestDecember 23, 2025 at 6:20 pmMy husband experienced verbal and physical abuse as a child. The trauma he experienced as a child definitely carried over into adulthood in various ways. He has struggled with unhealthy ways of coping with problems, a negative self image, and needing to learn how to how to establish healthy relationships as an adult while unlearning things engrained into him as a child.
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Lina
GuestDecember 23, 2025 at 10:01 pmA teacher’s mood will determine the whole class and it affects the students and co-workers around the teacher. Every kids will be happy to see a happy teacher and co-workers will be happy to be around a smiling co-worker. We teachers need to be professional and set a good example for the kids in the classroom.