Can you think of an example of a person who had a significant early childhood experience that impacted them in the future, whether good or bad?
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Can you think of an example of a person who had a significant early childhood experience that impacted them in the future, whether good or bad?
Aujurey Flagg replied 1 day, 10 hours ago 3 Members · 868 Replies
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Yadira
GuestAugust 6, 2025 at 9:32 pmA close friend lost their dad at a young age and their step-dad did not get along with them or make an attempt to get along with them. Trying to fill the need for that father figure that they lost they started to hang out with their older male cousin that got them into gangs.
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Yadira, your reflection highlights the profound impact of early loss and relationships on life choices. Great insight!
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Lynda
GuestAugust 7, 2025 at 2:21 amThis year I have a non-verbal preschooler, and several other students who have some challenging behaviors. The best way I can reach these kiddos is with smiles, silly noises, and hugs.
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Lynda, your approach of using smiles, silly noises, and hugs is wonderful! It fosters connection and supports emotional development. Keep it up!
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Jerod
GuestAugust 7, 2025 at 3:36 pmAs a child first entering into Kindergarten, I had the great luck of having my next door neighbor as an aid in the classroom. I was a bit of an anxious child, so starting school was a little nerve wracking for me. walking in and seeing that familiar face smiling back at me was so helpful in calming my nerves and enticing me away rom my mother.
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Great reflection, Jerod! It’s wonderful how familiar faces can ease anxiety and foster a positive school experience.
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Holly D.
GuestAugust 8, 2025 at 3:34 pmI remember my first couple days of kindergarten were tough. I cried and stood by the door. My teacher was nice and welcoming, but what helped the most was a happy smiling little girl who came up to me and invited me to come play with her. That positive interaction was all it took for me to feel more comfortable.
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Katherine
GuestAugust 8, 2025 at 6:46 pmMy daughter was very shy when she was young, and experienced significant separation anxiety when she began preschool, her first educational experience and first real time away from Mom. One of the teachers in her classroom made such a difference. She met my daughter every morning down on her level, looked her in the eye, smiled, gave her a hug, and helped welcome her gently into the classroom. She was so warm and kind, was patient and met my daughter where she was at. My daughter loved and trusted this teacher, and with the teacher’s love and support, she made friends, participated in the classroom activities, and grew to love school. She is now a happy and healthy sixth grader who loves school. I credit that preschool teacher’s love and patience for her early success that laid a great educational foundation!
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Katherine, your example beautifully illustrates the profound impact a supportive teacher can have on a child’s emotional development and future success!
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shana askew
GuestAugust 11, 2025 at 6:37 pmI have met a few children at my job who are going through experiences that have resulted in negative feedback. one specific child, was taken away from her parents and now lives with grandma, due to issues that the father and mother are having with DV and drug abuse. she started behaving differently, and became more emotional and clingy to the staff.
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Shana, your observation highlights the profound impact of early experiences on children’s behavior. Thank you for sharing this important perspective.
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Melody
GuestAugust 12, 2025 at 3:33 pmWhen my niece was a very young child, her stepfather (who had taken on the role of full time father) passed away suddenly in a car accident. She was forever impacted by this and the lack of comfort provided by her own mother, as she struggled with her own grief. Now, my niece struggles with being comforted and often withdraws from others or lashes out when they are not there for her in the way that she wants or needs them to be.
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Melody, your reflection highlights the profound impact of early loss on emotional development. Thank you for sharing such a personal experience.
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Tina Polk
GuestAugust 12, 2025 at 3:38 pmMy daughter yelled a lot at my granddaughter instead of talking to her calming when she did something wrong. My granddaughter now has anxiety when someone raises their voice towards her and any loud sounds gives her anxiety.
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Tina, your observation highlights the lasting impact of early experiences on children’s emotional well-being. It’s important to foster calm communication.
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anabelle
GuestAugust 12, 2025 at 4:19 pmthe teachers and the parents
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Great point, Anabelle! Teachers and parents play crucial roles in shaping children’s future experiences and outcomes.
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Bethany Holloway
GuestAugust 15, 2025 at 2:28 pmOne thing I went through as a child and that had a positive impact on me was being in gymnastics for 10 years. Having my parents and siblings their with me through my competition’s cheering me on made the biggest change in the world and kept me going.
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LDG
GuestAugust 16, 2025 at 8:57 pmI can remember being laughed at for having hand-me-downs and unstylish clothing. It made me very self-conscious and unable to focus on school as well as I should have.
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LDG, your reflection highlights the profound impact of early experiences on self-esteem and academic focus. Thank you for sharing!
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Connie
GuestAugust 16, 2025 at 10:09 pmyes, i have worked with a child that had developed seizures which really made a big impact on him and his development
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Thank you for sharing, Connie. It’s important to recognize how significant health challenges can shape a child’s development and experiences.
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taylor reid
GuestAugust 19, 2025 at 7:10 pmMy daughter is very shy and sensitive individual, she has a hard time opening up and making friends. At the daycare I work at everyone always welcomed her with a warm smile and wide open arms. She adjusted very quickly and always had the best time
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Lynda Bleyaert
GuestAugust 20, 2025 at 6:01 pmI had a second grade teacher who hugged us every time we came in class. When I started teaching 1st. grade I started to hug my students too. What a difference it made
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Rebecca
GuestAugust 21, 2025 at 2:02 amI remember walking into rooms where teachers were sitting as their desk and would respond with a smile and they would say good afternoon and I felt so confident that today was going to be a good day in class. And it has reminded me that the children at my center need that happiness when they walk in to know that they are in a safe place and it helps them know that it is going to be a great start to the day.
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Great reflection, Rebecca! Your experience highlights the importance of creating a welcoming environment for children. Keep fostering that positivity!
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