Can you think of an example of a person who had a significant early childhood experience that impacted them in the future, whether good or bad?
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Can you think of an example of a person who had a significant early childhood experience that impacted them in the future, whether good or bad?
Aujurey Flagg replied 1 day, 11 hours ago 3 Members · 868 Replies
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Selena
GuestNovember 20, 2025 at 8:27 pmI think back to when I was in childcare. I had some behavior issues that caused the teachers to shame me for things I didn’t understand. It wasn’t until I got older and worked with children myself that i learned those behaviors I had were normal and now, I try my best to approach that behavior in a kind and understanding way.
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Selena, your reflection is powerful! It’s inspiring how your experiences shaped your empathetic approach towards children’s behavior.
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Erin
GuestNovember 21, 2025 at 9:50 pmI had amazing early childhood teachers and because I had fun and felt cared for I wanted to give the same care to others which is why I became a teacher
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Great reflection, Erin! Your positive experiences truly highlight the lasting impact of nurturing educators on future generations.
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denise muha
GuestNovember 23, 2025 at 12:41 pmi know a child that was stabbed in the throat at 3 months old he is a difficult child and is taking alot to get him to learn the no violent behavior
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Denise, your example highlights the profound impact early trauma can have on a child’s behavior and learning. Thank you for sharing!
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Natascha White DeJong
GuestNovember 23, 2025 at 8:47 pmA friend of mine had two children, Kylie was 8 years old and her little brother was 6 years old. As she waited at a bus stop with them one morning, an older man drove by in a pickup truck and began yelling nonsensical obscenities at them as he kept driving down the street. Kylie was frightened, became more introverted and quiet and was fearful of leaving her mother’s side for years. Her and her family went to therapy and she’s a thriving adult today, but that one event had a profound effect on her childhood and development.
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Natascha, your example highlights how significant early experiences can shape a child’s development. It’s inspiring to see Kylie thrive despite adversity!
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Leah
GuestNovember 23, 2025 at 11:16 pmWhen my son was in preschool his teacher quit. She left without saying goodbye or letting the children know she was leaving. It was a big disruption to the school. Some families left. I think the school handled it well and helped the children through a difficult situation. It ended up being a great school year
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Leah, your reflection highlights the importance of stability in early education and how supportive transitions can lead to positive outcomes!
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Christy
GuestNovember 24, 2025 at 2:06 amMy ex-husband grew up in a family that was very unhealthy. His mother was narcissistic and emotionally immature. He has many memories of her demeanor and words belittling him. Unfortunately, it affects him even as a grown-up. He reflects and even defends the narcissism. His own emotional development was stunted. He ended up following his mother’s modeling and I found myself in an emotionally abusive marriage. It got so bad I had to take my young girls and get out. We are now divorced and co-parenting. I am now very aware of helping my girls cope with an emotionally unstable father and healing myself and my girls.
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Thank you for sharing your experience, Christy. It’s powerful how early influences shape our lives. Your commitment to healing is inspiring!
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lindsay wilcox
GuestNovember 24, 2025 at 1:13 pmMy child’s preschool teacher really did make a difference in their learning as the years have gone by. I really think that they set the foundation for future learning.
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Great insight, Lindsay! Early educators play a crucial role in shaping lifelong learning experiences. Thank you for sharing!
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Rosa
GuestNovember 24, 2025 at 7:38 pmA child in my preschool classroom many years ago, is now a preschool teacher and she is so good with children. Children and parents like being in her classroom
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Great example, Rosa! It highlights the lasting impact of positive early experiences in shaping future educators.
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Miranda McVae
GuestNovember 24, 2025 at 8:02 pmI have had a positive experience with my first ever daycare provider when I was young. I am still in contact with her today, she helped me feel safe and seen when I was scared to leave my mom everyday. And she always gave me time to warm up.
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Miranda, your reflection beautifully highlights the lasting impact of nurturing relationships in early childhood. It’s wonderful to hear about your connection!
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Kristin
GuestNovember 25, 2025 at 2:38 pmWhen my daughter entered kindergarten and the teacher she had was so bubbly and happy and always reassured her. It turned into the best first experience for her leaving mom and entering the school system. My shy daughter blossomed that year and it was a result of this smiling loving teacher.
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Austin
GuestNovember 27, 2025 at 12:41 amAs a child I had a head start teacher who I just adored she was so kind and sweet no matter what I never heard her raise her voice not once. She really helped me in a time when I didn’t have stability and that helped me grow up to be resilient whit everything I’ve been through
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Austin, your reflection beautifully highlights the power of nurturing educators in shaping resilience. Thank you for sharing your inspiring experience!
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Kaitlin Hudspeth
GuestNovember 29, 2025 at 8:10 pmMy brother experienced a difficult time in school, and rather than supporting him while he was struggling with assignments and course load, his caregivers and school got angry that things were incomplete and did not offer him help or peer assistance, etc. Therefore, my brother never graduated from high school because the school became too hard for him to endure emotionally and mentally, as he was often overwhelmed by his teachers and caregivers.
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Kaitlin, thank you for sharing your brother’s experience. It highlights the critical role of supportive environments in education.
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Elizabeth
GuestNovember 29, 2025 at 8:31 pmI know that children can sense when things aren’t right. They can see if you are upset and not feeling well.
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Great insight, Elizabeth! Children’s ability to sense emotions highlights the importance of a supportive environment in early development.
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vanesha
GuestNovember 30, 2025 at 6:11 pmon behave of myself my childhood was bad my mom and dad were always working then we moved away from my dad and my mom taught me everything growing up which were homophobic and so on and i remember sharing those lessons and i got bullied really bad for it
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Lucy
GuestNovember 30, 2025 at 11:56 pmMy Dad witnessed some marital abuse when growing up, and it made him be uncertain/insecure with maintaining a relationship with my Mom due to this.
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Thank you for sharing, Lucy. It’s powerful how early experiences shape our perspectives on relationships. Your dad’s story highlights the lasting impact of childhood.
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