Child Care Basics
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Children learn through relationships
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Children learn through relationships
Alma Hernandez replied 1 month, 1 week ago 250 Members · 969 Replies
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Active Listening: Pay attention and validate what they say. Quality Time Play and share activities together.Routine & Consistency Clear schedules and consistent rules.Empathy Acknowledge feelings and celebrate achievements.Shared Play Let them lead and join their games.Model Positive Behavior Show respect and patience.
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Great insights, Luz! Your emphasis on active listening and empathy is essential for fostering strong connections with children.
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Grace Van Blaricom
MemberNovember 13, 2025 at 10:55 pmYou are never too old to play with kids and talk to them.
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Jenny Ulvestad
MemberNovember 15, 2025 at 5:26 pmIf I were to give advice on building connections with children, I would say that it’s important to crouch down so that you are on the same level as the child when speaking with them. Smiling often and easily, recognizing effort and preferences, and giving children structured choices are all part of secure relationships between caregivers and children.
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Remi
MemberNovember 16, 2025 at 7:09 pmTo build connections with children in their classroom, it is important to spend time with each child doing an activity that they chose. Active engagement and narrative in activities and play, instead of simply standing and watching, can also build connection. Talking to the child’s family and learning more about them and their familial and cultural context can also help with connecting with children at a deeper level. Showing an interest in children’s interests and lives strength connections.
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Great insights, Remi! Actively engaging with children and understanding their backgrounds truly fosters meaningful connections. Well said!
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Kristin
MemberNovember 19, 2025 at 5:46 amInteract with the kids, find fun activities to do at their level
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Great advice, Kristin! Engaging in fun, age-appropriate activities fosters strong connections and enhances learning experiences.
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Use active listening skills, serve and return, redirection as necessary, and encouraging safety and kindness in the classroom.
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Great insights, Caitlin! Emphasizing active listening and safety fosters a nurturing environment for strong connections with children.
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Great insights, Fadumo! Listening and showing interest are essential for building strong connections with children. Keep it up!
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Alexis Croxford
MemberNovember 29, 2025 at 6:09 pmHonestly I think just being an active listener to the children has helped me build closer connections with them. It shows them that you care, and want to be in their presence. It makes them feel safe and want to continue to connect with you.
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Great insight, Alexis! Active listening truly fosters trust and strengthens relationships with children in the classroom.
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I would say that early learning providers should take time to get to know each child and their interests. It’s important to listen to them, observe how they play, and join in their activities. Being kind, patient, and consistent helps children feel safe and confident.I also recommend creating clear routines and welcoming spaces, where children know what to expect and feel comfortable exploring and learning. In the end, the most important thing is to show them that you really care about their well-being and learning.
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Itzabella, your insights on building connections through observation and kindness are invaluable. Great emphasis on creating a welcoming space!
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Sarah
MemberDecember 1, 2025 at 3:23 amBuilding connection takes time and trust. Maintining a consistent schedule throughout the week builds trust in the children. offering choices to children fosters independence, decision making skills, and confidence. Setting clear expectations and boundaries allows children and staff to all be on the same page, no mind reading required
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Great insights, Sarah! Your emphasis on consistency and choice is vital for fostering trust and independence in young learners.
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Karla Guizar
MemberDecember 2, 2025 at 2:22 amTry and create a special bond with every child in your care.
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Great insight, Karla! Building individual connections fosters trust and enhances the overall learning experience for each child.
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Faisa
MemberDecember 3, 2025 at 12:47 pmI would advise other early learning providers to focus on being present, attentive, and responsive to each child. Listen carefully, make eye contact, and respond warmly to their thoughts, feelings, and actions. Use positive language, describe their actions instead of just giving praise, and offer choices to help them feel empowered. Spend one-on-one time when needed, use gentle touch to convey care, and engage in play and activities alongside them. Consistency, patience, and showing respect for each child’s individuality and culture are key to building strong, secure connections.
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Great insights, Faisa! Your emphasis on presence and responsiveness is vital for fostering meaningful connections with children.
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Jeremy Mann
MemberDecember 6, 2025 at 11:22 pmI try to find their interest, I look at their shoes, backpack, shirts, to get an idea of what they enjoy. I usually due some research before engaging. Make a small connection, then you can start joining them on the floor during playtime.
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Great approach, Jeremy! Observing personal items is an insightful way to connect with children’s interests effectively.
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Catherine Tolentino
MemberDecember 7, 2025 at 2:20 amAdvice I would give to early learning providers who want to build connections with children in their classroom is to be present with the child and to show that we care and are attentively listening to them in times of conflict as well as times when they show interest or curiosity in something by providing them with activities that cater to their interests.
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Great insights, Catherine! Being present and responsive to children’s interests fosters strong connections and enhances their learning experience.
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mckenzie
MemberDecember 8, 2025 at 8:14 amWhile we are the ones in charge, and it is up to us to keep kids safe and healthy, we don’t need to treat them as if they are lower than us. They are people too, who want to be heard, considered, and cared for. We can keep them happy and healthy and build great connections as long as we take the time to listen to them, learn about how they interact with others, their likes and dislikes…
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Great insight, McKenzie! Valuing children’s voices fosters trust and strengthens connections in the classroom. Keep listening and engaging!
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